I sat
in the parking lot of Isaiah’s school and cried this morning. He was late,
again. I just can’t get it together. I just can’t make myself give a crap about
tardys and the pledge of allegiance. It’s just so hard to remember what to do
in the morning. What do you need for school kid? Ugh, let me think… It’s like
slogging through mud while being whined at by a very grumpy mini-me.
After
another whirlwind morning where I came away feeling like I need the ‘suckiest
mom of the year’ award I stumbled to the car, plopped my rear in the seat and
bawled. I sat there staring at the school where just a few months ago I would
sit in my car with my baby waiting for my happy kindergartener to emerge. Now
everything has changed.
Smiles
are painful work for me now and my happy kindergartener is a morose first
grader, my baby is gone forever. Depression wraps its cloak around me and I
wonder, “How could there ever be anything else?”
Keep breathing, Keep crying, these are all healing measures. Enjoy the smiles when they come and believe in the God who loves you more than ever.
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